Are you a grandparent, foster, or adoptive parent feeling overwhelmed by the emotional rollercoaster of kinship caregiving? Do you find yourself longing for peace and clarity as you juggle legal, financial, and family traumas—sometimes sinking under the weight of tough choices, chaotic homes, and the persistent sense that you "should" be able to handle it all? You’re not alone. The unseen labor of nurturing children through adversity can be isolating and exhausting, leaving you searching for hope, connection, and tools that actually work.
In this episode of "Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity," master life coach Bonnie Butler joins us to share her hard-earned wisdom from raising four biological children, fostering 17, and adopting six siblings from traumatic backgrounds. Bonnie’s journey from self-doubt to emotional confidence proves that thought management—and emotional hygiene—are the invisible superpowers every caregiver needs.
For more information on Bonnie and her coaching work, Please visit her website (https://bonniebutlercoaching.com/) . Get Bonnie's free guide- Finding Joy (https://bonnie-butler-coaching.kit.com/542bfa3d9c) . The Well (https://bonnie-butler-coaching.kit.com/7db31ed782) is a supportive space for foster, adoptive, and kinship parents to refill, restore, and rise together. The 2026 ATTach (Association for Training on Attachment and Trauma in Children) conference (https://attach.org/2026-conference/) is now open for registration!
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You have blessed my life with your podcast and your devotion to all of us grandparents raising grandchildren. I would be lost if I hadn't found you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and may God bless you and you're sweet family always. - Jeanette Coffey
I recently started listening to your podcast on Amazon Music. I'm addicted! You have validated so many of my feelings associated with raising young kiddos at an older age. No one in our life really gets it. Our girls are not blood related as their mom was a friend of our daughter and we wanted to get them out of a shelter. 6 years later...thank you!
Thank you for tuning into today's episode. It's been a journey of shared stories, insights, and invaluable advice from the heart of a community that knows the beauty and challenges of raising grandchildren. Your presence and engagement mean the world to us and to grandparents everywhere stepping up in ways they never imagined.
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